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How petty is this community and how toxic has it become? Welp, so toxic that people will make up wild accusations of theft without backing their claims up with proof. Tabitha I am deeply saddened you went through this. THIS. ALL OF THIS. Should NEVER of gotten to this point to where this poor gal was made to make a post showing off her FACEB in the photos! And just so people would STOP lying about her and calling her a thief and a scammer. All because she does PROFESSIONALLY done photos of her models.
"Admins are monitoring" Were they really freaking watching the bald faced LIES and SLANDER? Did any of them ask for proof of the accusations of theft, scamming, etc? Nope! But yet, if it were anyone else and I've personally seen this happen MULTIPLE times within that group, I've seen where they've asked posters for proof of their claims otherwise, they were considered to be "piling on".
I get being on high alert due to recent scams but not EVERYTHING nor EVERYONE is out here scamming people! Professionally done photos sell product. That can't be denied nor disputed. We see it at Walmart, Disneyland and any other major area that sells products.
So what! She took photos of her models on various backgrounds. From what I saw, many of these were taken outside. Do y'all expect it to be spring, sunny, and nice weather every freaking day!? Not all of us have the dang luxury of living in sunny Hawai'i or California or LA or any place else that it's considered Satan's butthole. Some of us, sadly, have to endure the beauty of having four bloody seasons. So when the weather's bad, she takes nicely done photos of sales pieces inside, on varied backgrounds. But OHMAGAWD she broke an unspoken rule of that being a no no! And because of that, she gets labeled something she's not, accused of something she's not done and the woodlice come crawling out of the woodworks to pile on with their lies.
"Go look it up!" I was told by someone. Hunny, I did. I found NOTHING in regards to what Tabitha was being accused of. I found other people with the name "Tabitha" but NOT HER. So what exactly am I looking for when it simply can't be found.
For so long this community has begun to spiral out of control and tonight, I saw just how toxic and petty it can be towards an innocent bystander just trying to sell her plastic ponies to someone lucky enough to buy from her.
"I'm bored with my daily life so I'm gonna go tarnish someone's reputation without asking that person directly for any pertaining information or doing my own damn homework such as using that nifty lookup tool!"
I swear.
Tabitha, I wanted to show folks what you went through today because this. ALL OF THIS was unacceptable. Calling someone, ANYONE a thief or a scammer WITHOUT PROOF are very serious accusations that can ruin someone's life. The hell with it damaging her reputation or image, say someone's vindictive enough, took this and went to her workplace, her family, her friends, and spread these malicious lies and rumors about her? I've seen it happen! And now, in a groups FILLED with predators (which yes, they're here folks!) she's now showcased her face in NEW PHOTOS which just sets her up for becoming a victim elsewhere (such as ID theft or worse).
So I've said it once and I'll say it again; IF YOU DON'T HAVE PROOF OF SOMEONE BEING A THIEF OR A SCAMMER AND WE'RE TO JUST BELIEVE YOU AT YOUR WORD, THEN NEWSFLASH HUNNY, PROOF OR IT DIDN'T HAPPEN!
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